Love is a coin

"One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing."

Kindness and indifference.

One can be as kind as one wants to be to whom he loves dearly or feels utterly careless about.

There is a fine line between genuine kindness and superficial one which is indifference.

Are they the same thing of two sides or similarly looking but completely different?

I choose latter.

There are things that look completely different but the same in essence,

and there are things that identical in appearance but different in essence.

Essence over appearance.

Just because somethings look similar to each other does not mean they are the same thing.

For what makes what it is lies in essence not in appearance.

"Success is the art of distinguish false friends and true enemies."

Friend and Enemy.

Pretender vs. contender.

Real; fake.

Inside; outside.

Discernment.

All my neighbors are someone to me.

The matter is 

are they enemy who is helpful or friend who is harmful?

How one can draw the invisible line and stay on it?

There are a lot of people around

more than 6 billions on the Earth.

Not all of them are friends,

and not all of them are enemies.

Just because someone is kind to me does not mean they are my friends,

and just because someone is mean, my enemies.

Tell the difference between kind person who is using me and mean person who is useful to me.

It is not the face of the person that makes or breaks relationships but the man behind the face

which is to say character.