Identity: choice

If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. 

Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how we should lead our lives, 

but none about his or her own.

In my case, I prefer to be crazy and happy than normal and bitter.

Pressure comes from outside; expectation comes from inside.

Feeling pressure means I still care about what other people think about me.

Set myself free from what others think about.

In this context, others means insignificant others.

people have certain idea or boundary for what others should be.

People care more about others meeting my expectation 

than me meeting my own expectation.

They think they know other people but they do not even know themselves.

Know myself.

Know who I am and where I am going with my life.

That is all I have to know.

I do not need to know what others think about me or what my life should be.

I do not need to know what others life should be, either.

I am who I choose to be, not someone who was chosen by others.

Do not be scared of controversy.

Do not fear to upset other people and hurt their feeling.

Do what I want to do, be who I want to be;

Not what others want from me.

Be my own person.

It is okay if other people think I am crazy, for what they think does not count.

Take courage and go for what I want.

Do not settle for mediocre.

Normal:  mediocre, average, ordinary.

Resentful, bitter for unable to fulfill potential.

For me, doing what I want matters more than what other people think about me.

Do not be scared and bitter but be happy and crazy.